"I'm Done…" Undervaluing myselfDoubting myselfFeeling inadequateSeeking other's approvalBeing apologetic about who I amTrying to pleaseBeing too kind even when being taken advantage of.Nomna, Dec 2016 Today I had to remind myself the lessons I learnt in therapy and my "I'm Done... list" that followed this learning affirmation. But then again, context is everything. I have … Continue reading Context is everything – unlearning and relearning parameters
I decided to stop living my life a paycheck away from being broke still thinking that all is well. I decided to be bold and be broke if that is my reality. I decided to live the way I please, if I am broke anyway I have nothing to lose. Yet I have so much … Continue reading The Other Day,
The heading or topic was written 3 months ago or so. Days and nights and mealtimes and playtimes and drinking times were filled with work. If they ever existed at all. Tons of work, endless visits to anyone who can shed a light to what seemed like the most exciting mountain to climb yet taking … Continue reading Corporate Laden
It is 2013, and what better way to start off the new year on a fresh exciting note!!! Okay, my only new year’s resolution, is to put a bit more time and effort into this space, and, please Lawd help me, find inspiration not in pain and heartache, but the everyday joys and pleasures. One … Continue reading Flash-fashion-forward!!!
I have discovered that the minute a man says they are self-employed; they instantly lose credibility to me. The first thing that rings in mind is that they are not stable financially, and could potentially be a burden. Unlike me and my employed fellows, most times they are never sure of when they will be … Continue reading My BBBEE status